How to Attract a Man - Aquarius

Aquarius Jan 20 - Feb 21

If birthday falls before Feb 1 read also Capricorn - If after Feb 10 read also Pisces

How to influence him: When you see him staring into space, his mind is probably fifty years in the future, gently remind him to return to planet earth. He has no one best friend, because everyone from every level of society is his friend. Be open minded and gracious when you meet them. He is a highly mystical and spiritual person and needs freedom for analytical exploration. You'll be hearing theories and ideas that are radical and border on the impossible, just smile and be a good audience. Yes, you can ask questions. He keeps his private thoughts and emotions hidden so they won't interfere with his detached exterior. He may even love you but not express it. You need to be a bit forward in this regard. He shrinks from binding emotional ties, so hide the emotions and act like a friend with out demands of exclusivity. When he feels that you can exist like a parallel to him without wanting to own him, he'll feel safe to commit to you. He is an optimist of the highest order, so if you are feeling down, he won't rest until he pulls you up again. He analyzes everything, so don't volunteer information about yourself, let him get it bit by bit. Keep the mystery about you for as long as you can.

A few don'ts: Don't be a clinging, sticky emotional burden, he can't deal with it, he wants you to hold your own ground. Don't try to get into his private thoughts, he'll share them when he wants to. He places a great value in trust which means freedom for you, don't abuse it, or you'll face scrutiny ever after. Don't mock or ridicule his futuristic ideas, or you'll show him that you are un-evolved.

He goes best with: Gemini, Libra, Sagittarius, Aquarius
He clashes with: Aries, Capricorn, Taurus, Cancer, Virgo
Neutral: Leo, Libra, Pisces